Choosing the Right Dildo: Types and Materials

A dildo comes in more varieties than most people expect. Realistic designs replicate natural texture - veins, a defined head, skin-like colouring - and are popular with anyone who wants a familiar, lifelike feel. Fantasy styles, including the imaginative designs from brands like Creature Cocks and Lovetoy, go in a completely different direction: unusual shapes, vivid colours, and forms that prioritise sensation over realism. Glass dildos from makers like Sexus Glass offer a firm, smooth experience and are compatible with both water- and silicone-based lubricants, making them a favourite for temperature play.

Material matters more than most buyers realise. Silicone is non-porous, easy to clean, and holds body heat well - look for 100% body-safe silicone if you want the safest option. Borosilicate glass and stainless steel are non-porous and can be sterilised between uses. Avoid jelly or PVC materials, which can harbour bacteria and may contain plasticisers. Understanding how to choose body-safe dildo materials is one of the most useful things a first-time buyer can do before purchasing.

Size, Shape, and Finding Your Fit

Sizing is personal, and there is no single right answer. Beginners often do well starting with a slimmer, shorter profile - something in the 12-15 cm range with a modest girth - before moving up. If you are curious about larger options, our big toys section covers oversized and extra-girthy picks specifically. Curved shafts and angled heads can target the G-spot more directly, while straight designs offer versatility for different positions and uses. Brands like B Yours and Shaft offer a wide spread of sizes across both realistic and non-realistic styles, so there is plenty of room to compare.

Harness-compatible (strapless or with an O-ring base) dildos are worth considering if you plan to use yours with a partner. A flared or suction-cup base adds stability for hands-free play and is a safety requirement for any toy used anally - though if anal play is your focus, our anal play range has purpose-designed options.

Care, Cleaning, and Getting the Most from Your Toy

Silicone, glass, and steel dildos can be washed with warm water and mild soap, or run through the top rack of a dishwasher (without detergent) for a deeper clean. Always use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys to avoid surface degradation. Store your toy in a clean pouch or box, away from other silicone items, to prevent material transfer. A little care after each session keeps your toy in good condition for years. The products below are arranged to help you compare types, sizes, and materials - take your time and pick the one that genuinely interests you.